730 AND COUNTING 

If you have been in church recently, or watching on line, you will be aware that I have been in a reflective mood of late.  Think that is because of the anniversary on my induction, and two years feels like a reflective space for me.   

Reflections and images are funny things.  They play a big part in life, in stories, from Hitchcock and Agatha Christie stories to Sleeping Beauty.  Mirrors and reflections all play a big part in our understandings, and how we see ourselves. 

In the world of the ‘selfie’ it’s a whole other realm as it’s like a picture and reflection at the same time.  Very strange indeed.  

How we see ourselves and how we are two completely different perspectives.  For example, recently I had to renew my passport, and I was shocked to see the picture that came back, I was really surprised that the old man in the passport was actually me!!!  Or when I was in Edinburgh recently and my friend took a ‘selfie’ I was really surprised to see that I was grey haired.  News to me, I can tell you!! 

So why don’t I notice these things when I look in a mirror?  What does a camera see that my eyes don’t…with or without glasses. 

Sometimes it’s about perspective, isn’t it?  When I look in the mirror, I can choose the angle, how to have my chin, how to tilt my head towards the last patch of less dark grey that I pretend is still the black hair of my youth.  Whereas the camera sometimes chooses the angle for you….and you have nowhere to hide…. 

So, two years in, or 730 days, you know what I am like now regardless of what angle you are looking at me.  I hope you have a feel for the style of ministry I feel called to give here as we set a direction for the future. 

We can look back in the past with fond memories, but we are all changed, as church, and as people, and changing all the time.   

So, let’s take a moment to reflect, and have an honest look down the lens.  

We are not the church of 20 or 30 years ago, but…. we are a growing church, new people are coming, younger people are coming people are joining, we have connections with new projects, new connections with schools…. 

We’ve done a lot together in 730 days…. lets be ready to do much much more.  Hope you are up for a challenge 

Your friend and minister 

Alan 

DEXY’S (MIS) ADVENTURES – Chapter 13 – The Guild Outing 

So on Wednesday I was given a shower, that a bit unusual, especially as I know I am going to the groomer next week.  But I’m told I must be smelling nice and looking my best because I have an outing to go on!! 

Not, I’m not sure what an ‘outing is’ but there you go, my bag was packed and off we went to the church.  Was a bit disappointed when we arrived.  We were first there.  None of my fans were there, so, no treats for me…. disappointing……..thankfully, that was rectified a short while later as people started to appear.  Then we were off on the bus…. 

There was only one seat left on the bus when I got on, so I got up and settled.  I did wonder where dad was going to sit.  The cheek on him, he took my seat and there I was on his knee!! It was cozy to say the least.  On dads’ knee, Ken on my left and Brian on my right.  The three of them yapped away like old fish wives about this, that and the next thing.  Ken seemed a bit of a doggie person, so, I gave him the odd doggie kiss on the cheek.  Not sure whether he liked it or not, but…there you go…. I was just being friendly.   

We arrived in Ceres and off we headed to the park to play with the ball….my favourite past time.  That was fun…. but we got caught in the rain and had to head to the cafe…. I got some treats and dad had a coffee and a scone….but……this is a strange thing…. before everyone else came in he got the lady to take his plate and cup away and tell to pretend he’d had nothing.  Strange behaviour, if you ask me.   

Everyone else came in we had afternoon tea; my dad managed another scone and a cake no less!!  Not that I’m judging but, I often hear ‘Dexy’s had enough treats.’ 

On the bus back, there was a bit of a swap, Brian on my left and Ken on my right.  Brian nearly got lost on the bus…under a pile of bags as my dad, when getting me on his knee threw everything, he was carrying over Brian……they thought it was pretty funny…. 

The moral of this tail is……….. Sometimes, you can’t choose your companions on a journey…you just have to sit where you sit.  But, make new friends, chat, speak with someone new…..you never know, you might make a new friend along the way.